Clairvoyancy is the ability to see that which is hidden.
A good reading should start by the clairvoyant building some rapport without trying to extract information, but just explaining how they work and asking to just give them feedback as to whether you can accept or understand a message they have to pass on. It’s the clairvoyant that is connecting with their guides and helpers and your higher self, not you.
Ideally a clairvoyant will start by giving a message or memory link that only you know about. This technique gives you confirmation that they have a true connection with the person coming through and to establish their identity; someone in that moment we may not remember or be able to accept, at this point it is the readers job to go back and recieve more information for you.
Once you have established a true connection that you have been able to confirm then the reason for coming through will start to flow. It may be to give comfort or perhaps to offer advice about a situation. Remember, just because the spirit you are receiving messages from has passed over, they are not necessarily wiser. This is why whatever you receive, accept and make your own judgements. It is also why an experienced medium channels through their guides so that the information they bring to you is from an ascended master.
Time is also an interesting phenomenon. Spirit have a very different perspective of time. Time is a part of our physical dimension and as a result Spirit find it difficult to translate what they see in to our timeline, be careful when asking for dates and time.
Very often loved ones come through for comfort and advice. They may even arrive to act a s guide to enable you to gain a new perspective on something. Whatever it may be accept what is given, but be your own judge.
We all have free choice, so clairvoyancy and receiving messages is about help and guidance to enable us to make our own choices from a point of greater understanding, or bring a situation to our attention or receive comfort and confirmation in times of need. Sometimes just knowing we are not alone, that our loved ones are watching over us or are near us is the comfort that is sought. That confirmation and proof can be all the healing we need.
TIPS WHEN HAVING A READING
Of Course, the person giving the reading needs to build a rapport with you and that’s ok. However it is important not to feed them information. The less they know about you the better and you will know that whatever your medium gives you will be confirmation from spirit. You are there for a reading, you need to know the information is from spirit and not your readers memory.
Sometimes you can not understand or accept information that is given to you during the reading, then later you receive confirmation from another source. Do call your reader back and let them know (we need and like confirmation). When you contact somebody for a reading and you don’t feel comfortable with that person, find someone else and listen to your intuition.